Some one that can help please help!!!!!!!!?

I am so sorry to hear that...Maybe you and your husband should go to some couples counseling. He sounds very into himself. Its understandable that he gets home tired, but exactly why does he get home at 8pm when he gets off at 4pm. Something must be going on with him. I hope that he is not cheating, I really do for your sake and your kids sake, but honestly it sounds too fishy. Good luck!