Am I over reacting to what my bf said to me tonight? or is our relationship in jeopardy?

Me and bf have been together for a year in a few weeks. we're both 22. we have been living together since oct. It's been a rough week. I quit my job a week ago, and I'm trying hard to get back on my feet. He's been really good, and has no problem taking care of me. Well, it's that time of the month so it's been a rough day. But tonight I asked him to mage me. I really haven't been feeling well. I'm sure the girls know what I mean for sure. But anyway, he told me he wanted to, but he was just too tired. It hurt me, because there has been times that i've woke him out of a dead sleep to make love, and he has gotten up (even when he's had to get up really early, unlike tonight) So I brought that up. I said that if I wanted to make love he'd stay awake for that. Kinda harsh, I know. But he told me that if i do that again, he'd just tell me no (deny me of having ). i've been on the couch ever since. I wrote him a letter telling him how hurt that made me and left it on our nightstand. He's fast asleep, and I'm in pain emotionally on top of physically, because of course I didn't get a mage or any attention for that matter. Am I over reacting? What does all this say about our relationship? Help!!!!