I need relationship advise!?

My husband care for his parents than me. When we got married, his parents were against me. They didn't like me and did whatever they can to stop the marriage. But, we still got married, and started to live with them because my husband insisted. After that they used to insult me whenever my husband is not around. I let that go. When my parents came to visit me, they also insulted them which hurt me the most. But, my husband still didn't say anything. I also let that go. Sometimes I used to get upset and tell things my husband about his parents behavior but never misbehave or done anything to hurt their feelings. After we got separated, I used to call them every week. But all they do is to insult me. And when they talk to me husband, they act the way that they love me very much. And if I tell about their behavior to my husband, he simply replies me that they can never do things like that. I also let that go. Then they did something horrible to family that I don't want to talk about. And, I can't just let that go. But, according to my husband, they didn't do anything wrong or that was just his parent's mistake that's all. He never stood up to them. So, I told him to be strong and make them understand what have they done. But, my husband misunderstood me. He says that I don't want him to communicate with his parents or don't have any relationship with them. He keep talking to his family behind my back and makes me feel that his family is more important than me and that's why he doesn't talk to him in front of me. I don't want divorce or anything. I just want him to realize what his family doing to us. I am sorry if I bore you with my long story. Please can someone give me any advise about that? Thanks in advance.